It's Out
I left a comment on Janets blog the other day not thinking ( yes, I sould have e-mailed).
So here it is.... I was asked out last night by this new guy I work with. He is 25, french ( not t0o sure about that) works on base and started at Boston Pizza for a little more cash. The biggest flirt I have ever met! So last night after work I was having dinner with another girl and jon asked me what my last boyfriend was like. My friend pipes up and tells him " Joy has never dated", He starts to laugh " A beautiful woman like Joy never dated, I don't believe you" So he goes around asking the other people at work and they all said the same thing . So Jon says " If that is the case, I want to have the honor and be her first date".
And that is the story..
Note : he is devorced and not a Christian ( but then what is one date, he said he would pay for everything)
posted by Joy @ 8:12 PM
23 comments
23 Comments:
So you sell your first date to the highest bidder hey... a little on the geisha side wouldn't you say. Though I would imagine a lot more innocent than the geisha...
more then likely will wind up as ammo in the next "not about money" talk. Not saying its right but just giving you fair warning LOL.
He is a nice guy, good looking, funny and he asked me out, you would go too. And Grace you can't be one to talk about dating, I have a few stories of my own about you already.
Joy, why does a wheelchair symbol come up beside your word verification?
Dear Kelly the wheel chair symbol lets you listen and type the numbers you hear - in casre you have trouble reading them. Joybells - you think you know me, but I'm afraid I hide much more than you think I do. Sorry to burst your bubble, anything you know is probably rumours I concocted in order to throw you off a trail. Aaron... you never comment on my blog any more - I am feeling very jealous and forgotten and that will never do... "hell hath no fury like..." and all that jazz.
Aaron this will also probably be part of that "girls make interesting decisions(mistakes) that they later regret" talk!
All because they don't know how to say no! Or because they are more worried about what others may think than about their previous life stances they have made.\
etc. etc. etc.
Anonymous aka. John and/or Dave... why hide behind anonymity??? I don't get people not wanting to be known???
You need to take a few lessons from Robbie Williams - know what i mean? .. probably not, I'm the only one I know who saw that interview.
Regrets I've had a few, but then again to few to mention. I do what I have to do and see them through without exception.
For... I do things my way!
What would I have to regret.. I'm not dating him, it's one date! Plus you all might just like him. He likes white ninja comics, so do you. Travel, so do all of you. Dating good looking women, so do most of you. I think he's fun but not a guy I can see myself with.
Oh and Aaron it's not about money!!! It's just nice to have a guy around who wants to pay because He wants to, not because I asked him to or told him he has to. He thinks of me as a woman, not a schienbein or little sister of and so he wants to pay and make me feel as such.
I would pay for him, but he offered, I can't take that away from him. We could go for a walk that cost nothing as a first date and that would be just fine.
Please remember that guys have feelings too. Some of us may not be as open about them, but we do have them. If you aren't interested in this guy, but are going on a date because he's good looking and because he asked, be careful that you don't use and them shatter his heart. Good communication will always prevail.
At first I thought Anonymous implies that "I" Would be a mistake and that girls will talk about me as a poor descision they've made. LOL.
Which is totally true. I thought "who is the person that knows me so well?" LOL
Dave or John
Grace are you serious about that wheelchair thingy? I couldn't get it to work, which sucks because sometimes it takes me 2 tries to get the word verification right--what's wrong with me? And "anonymous", sometimes "girls" make interesting decisions or "mistakes" not because they are wanting to throw away the values they hold, but because they see something, want it, then take it instead of waiting for something better. And guys make the same "mistakes" too, you know! And for fear of saying something incriminating about myself, I digress...
Joy,
I leave my message out condemnation, but genuine conern, and speaking out of unfortunate experience:
A date is not just a date. Obviously, you have been invited out because he has interest in you. If you have no intentions of pursuing a relationship, then to agree to the date is merely deceit.
If you are planning to pursue a relationship, ask the LORD what He thinks about you pursuing a close relationship with a guy who is not surrendered to Christ.
I have gone down that dangerous path before myself, with the only fruit being regrets and hard lessons learnt.
God always has the best in mind for you.
God Bless you...
a few spelling mistakes, but hopefully the message is not lost...
if he's not a guy you can see yourself with then its pride and selfishness just like the song my way by frank sinatra
Nope. Boys make a different set of mistakes; I believe that Grace and Joy have endured the knowledge dropped by Dave and myself. We are quite intelligent. Expecially when we are louder and talk faster then everyone else.
Although I think Joy may be smitten with this boy. She keeps saying she isnt interested but who is she trying to convince? She has already called him fun,nice,and good looking(on Janets blog...)
Hmmm...... :D
I hung out with him last night, (with a group of friends).But your are right,I have no feelings for him nor him for me. I found out this morning from someone I work with that he is dating another girl and a few other matter came up that I will not go into. But I now know why he wanted to take me out.
I still think he is a ok guy to work with and hung out in a group, but Like aaron said they have pounded sense into me enough to know when to say no.
Why can't I find a good guy?
ditto... but uh... anonymous - aren't you in fact a good guy. At least some of the time? (Take that as you will)
Anyone can chose to be anonymous. The joy's (no pun intended) of being on the internet. As Yogger pointed out, a 40 year old beer belly, male trucker could pose as a little girl and no one would really know it for certain.
I actually am hotrodent, posing as anonymous to prove this fact. And FYI, I did not post any of the other anonymous comments.
Grace, that was me. I just was lazy and didn't want to type my name again.
I know... I was in my own silly way trying to prove I knew that by the - "At least some of the time".
Why do I always try to be so mysterious. It's a bad habit I guess.
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